Check out this story. My friend Karen has a very close guy friend, who last Saturday invited her to a wine tasting. She never went to it, although she even changed her shift. This guy ended up taking his fck buddy. Because, his words, I can get more than wine later.
Another guy told me over dinner, ye, I like to hang out with one girl in special. We go to the movies once in a while but, no strings attached. I told her I don’t want a relationship, at least not a serious one. I just want to be stand. She asked me to call her more times. Ye, I can do that…
What? One special girl, no relationship. Good sex, no love. What is that American guys want exactly?
I couldn’t stop thinking about it for the last couple days, until I realized something. Maybe American guys are crazy, but maybe that is why American guys are rich. I’ll elaborate.
Maybe this kind of “thing” (since fck buddy doesn’t mean relationship) is actually the best thing a girl (and a guy) can have. You have a nice, good smelling human being to kiss… and more. You don’t really have to call him, hence you have time to do your things. Since you don’t have to see him all the time, you save outfits. You actually save quite money, or you repeat out fits in other casual dates. To those casual dates you can go, indeed. You can flirt, you can kiss… and don’t need to worry with nothing else, because you have your fck buddy.
Putting it in the balance you cut the bs, you cut the bad humor, you cut the drama. You keep the fun, the novelty and have time to write your final papers. From here you conclude. American guys are richer because they just cut the death weight. And maybe we should learn from that.
Where there are no solicitations, there is no opportunity. Dream jobs, the ones who offer good salary, and benefits, demand hard work. The application process is long; interview, observation, demonstration of work, salary discussion. But in the mean time, or in the search time, you can always count on the U$ 7.50/ hour relationship. It’s not “The one”, but it keeps you active.
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I understand; am borderlining agreeing with it... But can't let go of the chance to say: Humans instinctively look to be fulfilled, and that's the purpose of a relationship. We can never stop aiming for the ideal person. It may sound cheesy, but I realized this past week, that it will take more than a hot body and an enticing smile to make me feel home! ;) Later princess!!! Chris
It seems like you can have everything this way, but inevitably someone always wants more and that throws off the balance of everything. I would love to meet someone who has the 'f- buddy' situation down to a science. I think it's probably more a fantasy.
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